So, I just saw my psychologist (this is a good thing, for those who are wondering), and one of the last things I said, with complete sincerity by the way, was this:
"I feel bad for her too, but she's also a jerk."
*psychologist laughs* (good laugh, not a mean one)
"I love her with all my heart; I want all the best for her... but she's a jerk."
I wonder how common that experience is.
Are there a lot of other people who really care about someone who happens to be a jerk? If so, have any of you found a way to make the experience easier on yourself.
Because I find that having a jerk you really care about is rather difficult, especially emotionally.